If you identify with 5 or more of these statements, it's likely that you have the Enmeshment Schema
- 1It's difficult for me to maintain boundaries with my parents.
- 2My parents are over-involved in my life.
- 3I am often very much affected by my parent's or partner's emotional state.
- 4If my parents or partner are unhappy - I am unhappy.
- 5I find it difficult to meet my own needs if they conflict with my parents or partner.
- 6Sometimes I don't feel like my life is my own.
- 7I am so close to my parents or partner that it's hard to feel like I have my own identity.
- 8I feel obliged to tell my parents all the intimate details of my life.
- 9I have trouble holding on to my sense of self in intimate relationships.
- 10I often feel suffocated when I am around my parents.
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