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Schemas are deeply ingrained emotional patterns that repeat throughout our lives sabotaging our attempts to reach our goals, dreams and live a fulfilling life. Identifying and reducing your schemas is the key to achieving lasting change.

  • 18 Schemas
    • 1 – 9
      • Emotional Deprivation
      • Abandonment
      • Mistrust & Abuse
      • Social Isolation
      • Defectiveness & Shame
      • Failure To Achieve
      • Dependency & Incompetence
      • Vulnerability to Harm
      • Enmeshment
    • 10 – 18
      • Subjugation
      • Self-Sacrifice
      • Emotional Inhibition
      • Unrelenting Standards
      • Entitlement & Grandiosity
      • Insufficient Limits & Self-Control
      • Approval Seeking
      • Negativity & Pessimism
      • Punitiveness
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Enmeshment

If you identify with 5 or more of these statements, it's likely that you have the Enmeshment Schema

  • 1
    It's difficult for me to maintain boundaries with my parents. 
  • 2
    My parents are over-involved in my life.
  • 3
    I am often very much affected by my parent's or partner's emotional state.
  • 4
    If my parents or partner are unhappy - I am unhappy.
  • 5
    I find it difficult to meet my own needs if they conflict with my parents or partner.
  • 6
    Sometimes I don't feel like my life is my own.
  • 7
     I am so close to my parents or partner that it's hard to feel like I have my own identity.
  • 8
    I feel obliged to tell my parents all the intimate details of my life.
  • 9
    I have trouble holding on to my sense of self in intimate relationships.
  • 10
    I often feel suffocated when I am around my parents.

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